TALKING IN SLEEP
whn the child retires to sleep...he first enters into a state of alpha sleep...here the child is just free from all thoughts.this is the best time to talk to ur child to get benifits.....
after the child goes to sleep, for the first 10 mins, u talk to the child in a positive present tense...this can be used in different ways which would benifit ur child
1) Any habits which u would like to to free ur child from like bed-wetting,thumb sucking or any behavioural problems can be talked about in the sleep in a positive present tense
2) YOu can also give the vision n the sanskara's in sleep. all the values u want ur child to imbibe shuld be spoken in the sleep.it will be inculcated for the life time
3) You can make your child listen to music in the sleep. the highest form of music is the indian classical vocal. any one particular raga should be played for 30 days. thn change to another raga. apart from this any info can be given, be it maths, tables, shlokas,mantras etc(will give u alist of music which can be played to the child)
INTENSE TALKING IN THE SLEEP
this is a very effective method. list down all the problems u think your child has. take one problem at atime for eg. if he has cough thn u can say
--- you are strong and healthy
--- you are breathing freely
--- your chest and lungs are totally clear
Repeat this for 50-60 times WITH FEELINGS, for about 15mins after the child has gone to sleep.
here intense focus is given on tht particular area. it works like a laser beam which is used to cut the diamonds. continue for few days till u are saTisfied with the degree of change. you can thn focus on another problem
if problem of thumb sucking
--- you are strong and healthy
--- you will listen to my words
--- you will keep ur hands on ur side n sleep
--- your teeth are very gud
so on............ always positive present tense sentences...no room for negativity
further any doubts adagandi
idi nenu practical ga chusanu work avvadam.....
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
Sunday, October 4, 2009
ISP - Say 'N' Do
we spoke abt VISION..now lets see abt SAY n DO
it has got 3 satges
1) running commentary------------ for new Born to 1 yr
2) Allowing ur child to experience---------1 yr to 4yrs
3) answering WHY-------------from 4yrs to 7yrs
RUNNING COMMENTARY: the name itself suggests tht u need to give commentary(continuously Talk).from the fourth month of pregnacy the mother can apply this till the child is of 1 yr of age.
tell everything to ur child in detail.....by doing this we are putting more info in right brain(brain gurinchi malli cheptaa) till 6yrs wht we keep in brain it is stored n later the left brain activates n uses the info stored in right brain.
also u develop bonding b/w the child n parents. n by storing the info in right brain ur are stimuating him n exercising his/her brain.tell him everything just like u hear the cricket commentary..mottam cheopandi..everything in detail....the child will not feel ignored...u will draw their attention n mentally prepare thm by telling everything..N be HONEST wht ever u tell......manam ippudu edi chepithe adi ala vallaki register ayyipothundi.so tell thm truth. thy are now embodiments of truth..help thm in staying this for ever..
ila enduku chepthunna running commentary ivvamani.......tell everything even ur financial conditions..intlo godavalu etc.....tell thm everything..because we ourselves had undergone this..eg some time whn theres some discussion whn we tell something mana vallu emantaaru..nuvvu chinnadanivi salaha icche antadanivi ayyava ani..ela feel ayamu manamu...or sometimes thy would have said peddadanivi idi kuda neeku teliyada ani...intaki manam peddavallama or chinnavallama...manake doubt vacchina rojulu vunnayi ..avuna......so ila running commentary vala the child too knows whts happening in the house..as hes is also involved..he will also adjust acordingly.....
suppose manam ivi evi cheppamu ur child grows turns 10yrs. thn he comes oneday n tells i need 5000, we are going for outing ,,n iam in for it ,,i need to pay in the evening......n already u have some financial crisis from past 6 months n sudenga ila mee child adigithe meeru emantaaru...neeku illu gurinchi emi patatdu..vellodu intlo paristhutulu telusaa n so on.......................didu ever tell ur child all this......why will he try to understand all this if u tell today..we always ignore the child.....like suppose meeru bayatiki velthunnaru..do u say to the child..nenu bayatiki velthuna ivi kondaaniki/dinnerki/something else...naaku intha time paduthundi..so nenu max ga 2 hrs or 2 1/2 hrs lo vastaanu....entamandi cheppi veltaaru to their kids i mean 0-3 yrs lopu valalki....cheppakunda veltaamu as he will cling to u once the child knows u are leaving him n going..but if u tell..u r stimulating him...n preparing him....n meku khali time lo start telling him abt ur work n how its necesary to go to office n how it helps u..n all..the child will understand
tell everything..while having bath..every minute detail like picking the tumbler, filling
filling with water..etc shuld be spoken..else bhojanam chesetappudu parents digestive system of the child gurinchi..mandulu icchetappudu..enduku isthunnamu avi vesukovadam valla em avuthundi anni detailed ga cheppali..by doing this the child learns constantly..thy will not get disintrested
pillalu bore avvaru.....as they are always enthusiastic to learn..deeniki oka manchi eg cheppindi aavida
manaki manchi aakali vesthundi...manaki ishtamainavi ready ga vunnayi..suddenly evaro vacchi ila bajjariki velli vaddamu some intresting vi vunnayi antaaru..wht will u do ..eat or go with thm..the answer would be eat first n thn go
but
pillalu ki aakali vesthunnapudu..annam n oka kotta toy pettaru anukondi..vaadu annam kante toy ni pattukuntaadu...it means he wants to learn wht it is..n all..so pillalu will never get bored.
2) learning from experience
this goes for 1-4 yrs
ikakda child wants to learn different things..eg. hot n cold..sweet n sour etc.
this all shuld take palce in presence of elders.suppose child wants to touch something hot..mundu mother shuld touch n say with action hot ani(ikkada action very imp) thn allow the child to feel it. best place kitchen to explore for child..anni tastes..like meeru vegies cut chesthunnaranukondi...child ki kuda oka plastic kati ivvandi..ila ivvadam valla vaadu cut chestaadhu... u are trying to fine tune ur child motor skills..ila dat to day activities lo involve cheyyadam valla thy will remeber the experiences..n learning process enhance avuthundi.
vallu edi chestamanna vaddu or NO ani cheppavaddu..suppose meeru ironing chesthunnaru...ur child wants to do..so first iron chesina batta meeda cheyyi pettinchandi..vedi ga tagulthundi adi..next just mee hand iron box deggariki teesukoni velli with action cheppandi aavedi sega ela vuntundo..let the child know everything...everything.....by doing all these we are developing his 5 senses..at the same time developing the childs confidence.if we wont allow it leads to fear
we knowingly or unknowingly impose fear in child...alochinchandi elaano....pillalu annam tinakapothe em chestaam ...adgo kaki icchesthunna ..nenu tinestaanu..etc etc ..avunna..inka further vinaka[pothe adigo akkada aa room lo deyyam /rakshasi vundi vachi ninnu mingesthundi ani...(but nijamga aa gadi lo vundaa.....)a roju bhayam petti tinipinchechestaaru...mee pani ayyipoyindi but next day..meeru antaaru pada velli aa gadi lo velli light veddam...or bomma tecchukundamu ani...child ki oka image padipoyindi aa gadi lo buchi vundi ani inka ala fear anaedi install ayipothundi.
if the child falls let him fall....he will learn n develop confidence
never install fear in thm..oka eg cheptaanu.....manam edi cheptaamo ade chestaaru pillalu
suppose mee intiki evaro vaccharu(meeku telisina valle le)...meeru water ivvadaniki lopaliki veltaaru..
ur child comes n tell nenu istanu water n already u filled water in glass tumblers....meeremantaru vaddu nuvvu padestavu ani(earlier u never allowed ur child to do this)vaadu gattiga edustadu nenu istanu ani n mee guest vinnaru..so out of courtesy u say sare teesukoni vellu ani..but u will give 100 directions...jagrattaga teesukonivellu ila pattuko ala pattuko...padestavu ala vellu ila vellu n all..right..so ur child takes it n suddenly remembers nuvu padestavu ani meeru anindi..so out of fear padestaadu vadu..meeremantaaru cheppana nuvvu padestavu.....etcneeku oka pani kuda raadu n all..isisnt it
but vadu chesindi kuda meeru cheppinde kada ..meeru padestavu ani annaru vadu kuda meeru cheppinde chesaadu....so try to develop his confidence...he may fail once but u be there to support his morale..ila cheyyadam valla natural discipline vasthundi
how many of u like ur child to be disciplined in front of everyone.....i hope andaru yes antaru..u want thm to be disciplined naturally or just mee kallu chuso ledo meeru tiditheno disciplined ga vundaala.....
it all depends how u mold the clay..once the clay is heated manam entha anukunna daani vere shape ivvalemu...
this all u can give right whn the child is young n learning...n he develops this from experience..let him be free to learn
ikkada maku oka rhyme mana telugu di chepparu with action..kondaru chesaru with action kondaru cheyyaledhu..n some tried to do.....thn she said why arent u doing with action ani.....the same the child too experiences..whn someone comes to ur house n u ask ur child to sing or tell rhymes...n the child doesnt even move his /her lips...meeremantaru bad boy/girl neeku emi raavantaru n all isint it...but did u understand the child feelings...ade once the guests go ur child will start telling u rhymes..meeru antaru po ippudu naakenduku..apuudu cheppaledhuga ani...
manam chesthe ne kada pillalu mana deggaranunchi nerchukunedi....whn young we would have done..like being free but now we stop all tht..
pillalu kuda ade nerchukuntaru...its on us to develop their confidence n to learn tht give thm their space n time..dont force thm.
sare next part of SAY n DO
3)whn the child asks WHY
for 4- above children
ikkada child annitiki reason telusukovaalanukuntaadu..anduke ee WHY..ilaantappudu parents answers ivvakudadhu..but allow him to inquire n find out themselves.deeni valla right brain activate avuthundi..creavity stimulate ayyin brain grow avuthundi.
okavela meeku answer teliyadanukondi..tell the child u will find out n let thm know.and ask thm their view..vallu cheppinaaka say 'YES',Ok..this is wht i feel ani..ila cheyyadam valla left brain stimulate avuthundi..reasoning develop avuthundi
left brain activate avavdam valla the child asks WHY
nevr anser the child ques give room for their creativity
ask thm why it happens like this/ wht happened? etc..once we answer we are killing their imagination..chinna pillala creativity ki antham vundadhu...this is time their brain starts loigical reasoning...u would have observed whn u give a toy to the child he first touches it, tries to feel it, thn tries to open it, throws down.........before he does something to tht broken toy wht do we do..vadini titti..a bommani permanent ga ataka meeda cherustaaru..but vaadiki aa virigina daantlo nunchi vachina sabdam lo inko creativity vuntundi...adi enta costly bpomma ayina sare bomma paristhiti anthe......vademi adagaledhu naaku intha costly bommakonivvu ani...for child oka 10/- or 1000 rs/- bomma same vadiki kavalsinda alla feel the toy n see wht more it is made of....
child creativity enthaga vuntundi ante..once a child was going on drive with his parents..suddenly he sees lots of lighting (actually adi oka hotel)in some distance..he asks his mother wht it is ani... so mom said u tell me wht u are thinking ani...vadu em cheppado telusaaa......i think its a big cale with som many candles..may be oka peddauncle birtyhday emo ani...isint just amazing to think like tht..the same child
the same child after 8 yrs became so shy n all his creativity has gone..can u guess what could be the reason................
HE STARTED GOING TO SCHOOL(ante school ki velladam tappa ani anukuntunnara..not at alll)
whts happening in the school...........no room for creativity..just spoon feeding......adi alavatu ayyi manam why ani adiginappudu the child becomes silent..he becomes tuned to listen whtever we say......ala ani school ni tappu pattatledhu......wht iam telling is u can create such environm,ent in ur home giving constant support to the child
even if the child is wrong u just tell "yes ur right..but wht i feel is...................." never correct him u are killing the creativity(in short the right brain of the child) ala cheppi thn ask now wht do u think abt wht i told u ani adagandi...he will start analysing...helping him to activate his left brain.
one more thing which i forgot to tell in 1 n 2nd part of Say n do is
spk to child in the same level..i mean height.....mormal ga whn child starts walking manam cheyyi pattukoni maatladuthu veltaamu right...dont do tht......the child wants to see ur face whn u spk..so he asks u to lift him up......n u complain veedu nannu vadaladu......eppudu ettukone vundaali ani...... even whn child is 1 yr also...spk to him at the same level...kneel down in front of thechild n spk...he will be able to see ur expressions...
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
it has got 3 satges
1) running commentary------------ for new Born to 1 yr
2) Allowing ur child to experience---------1 yr to 4yrs
3) answering WHY-------------from 4yrs to 7yrs
RUNNING COMMENTARY: the name itself suggests tht u need to give commentary(continuously Talk).from the fourth month of pregnacy the mother can apply this till the child is of 1 yr of age.
tell everything to ur child in detail.....by doing this we are putting more info in right brain(brain gurinchi malli cheptaa) till 6yrs wht we keep in brain it is stored n later the left brain activates n uses the info stored in right brain.
also u develop bonding b/w the child n parents. n by storing the info in right brain ur are stimuating him n exercising his/her brain.tell him everything just like u hear the cricket commentary..mottam cheopandi..everything in detail....the child will not feel ignored...u will draw their attention n mentally prepare thm by telling everything..N be HONEST wht ever u tell......manam ippudu edi chepithe adi ala vallaki register ayyipothundi.so tell thm truth. thy are now embodiments of truth..help thm in staying this for ever..
ila enduku chepthunna running commentary ivvamani.......tell everything even ur financial conditions..intlo godavalu etc.....tell thm everything..because we ourselves had undergone this..eg some time whn theres some discussion whn we tell something mana vallu emantaaru..nuvvu chinnadanivi salaha icche antadanivi ayyava ani..ela feel ayamu manamu...or sometimes thy would have said peddadanivi idi kuda neeku teliyada ani...intaki manam peddavallama or chinnavallama...manake doubt vacchina rojulu vunnayi ..avuna......so ila running commentary vala the child too knows whts happening in the house..as hes is also involved..he will also adjust acordingly.....
suppose manam ivi evi cheppamu ur child grows turns 10yrs. thn he comes oneday n tells i need 5000, we are going for outing ,,n iam in for it ,,i need to pay in the evening......n already u have some financial crisis from past 6 months n sudenga ila mee child adigithe meeru emantaaru...neeku illu gurinchi emi patatdu..vellodu intlo paristhutulu telusaa n so on.......................didu ever tell ur child all this......why will he try to understand all this if u tell today..we always ignore the child.....like suppose meeru bayatiki velthunnaru..do u say to the child..nenu bayatiki velthuna ivi kondaaniki/dinnerki/something else...naaku intha time paduthundi..so nenu max ga 2 hrs or 2 1/2 hrs lo vastaanu....entamandi cheppi veltaaru to their kids i mean 0-3 yrs lopu valalki....cheppakunda veltaamu as he will cling to u once the child knows u are leaving him n going..but if u tell..u r stimulating him...n preparing him....n meku khali time lo start telling him abt ur work n how its necesary to go to office n how it helps u..n all..the child will understand
tell everything..while having bath..every minute detail like picking the tumbler, filling
filling with water..etc shuld be spoken..else bhojanam chesetappudu parents digestive system of the child gurinchi..mandulu icchetappudu..enduku isthunnamu avi vesukovadam valla em avuthundi anni detailed ga cheppali..by doing this the child learns constantly..thy will not get disintrested
pillalu bore avvaru.....as they are always enthusiastic to learn..deeniki oka manchi eg cheppindi aavida
manaki manchi aakali vesthundi...manaki ishtamainavi ready ga vunnayi..suddenly evaro vacchi ila bajjariki velli vaddamu some intresting vi vunnayi antaaru..wht will u do ..eat or go with thm..the answer would be eat first n thn go
but
pillalu ki aakali vesthunnapudu..annam n oka kotta toy pettaru anukondi..vaadu annam kante toy ni pattukuntaadu...it means he wants to learn wht it is..n all..so pillalu will never get bored.
2) learning from experience
this goes for 1-4 yrs
ikakda child wants to learn different things..eg. hot n cold..sweet n sour etc.
this all shuld take palce in presence of elders.suppose child wants to touch something hot..mundu mother shuld touch n say with action hot ani(ikkada action very imp) thn allow the child to feel it. best place kitchen to explore for child..anni tastes..like meeru vegies cut chesthunnaranukondi...child ki kuda oka plastic kati ivvandi..ila ivvadam valla vaadu cut chestaadhu... u are trying to fine tune ur child motor skills..ila dat to day activities lo involve cheyyadam valla thy will remeber the experiences..n learning process enhance avuthundi.
vallu edi chestamanna vaddu or NO ani cheppavaddu..suppose meeru ironing chesthunnaru...ur child wants to do..so first iron chesina batta meeda cheyyi pettinchandi..vedi ga tagulthundi adi..next just mee hand iron box deggariki teesukoni velli with action cheppandi aavedi sega ela vuntundo..let the child know everything...everything.....by doing all these we are developing his 5 senses..at the same time developing the childs confidence.if we wont allow it leads to fear
we knowingly or unknowingly impose fear in child...alochinchandi elaano....pillalu annam tinakapothe em chestaam ...adgo kaki icchesthunna ..nenu tinestaanu..etc etc ..avunna..inka further vinaka[pothe adigo akkada aa room lo deyyam /rakshasi vundi vachi ninnu mingesthundi ani...(but nijamga aa gadi lo vundaa.....)a roju bhayam petti tinipinchechestaaru...mee pani ayyipoyindi but next day..meeru antaaru pada velli aa gadi lo velli light veddam...or bomma tecchukundamu ani...child ki oka image padipoyindi aa gadi lo buchi vundi ani inka ala fear anaedi install ayipothundi.
if the child falls let him fall....he will learn n develop confidence
never install fear in thm..oka eg cheptaanu.....manam edi cheptaamo ade chestaaru pillalu
suppose mee intiki evaro vaccharu(meeku telisina valle le)...meeru water ivvadaniki lopaliki veltaaru..
ur child comes n tell nenu istanu water n already u filled water in glass tumblers....meeremantaru vaddu nuvvu padestavu ani(earlier u never allowed ur child to do this)vaadu gattiga edustadu nenu istanu ani n mee guest vinnaru..so out of courtesy u say sare teesukoni vellu ani..but u will give 100 directions...jagrattaga teesukonivellu ila pattuko ala pattuko...padestavu ala vellu ila vellu n all..right..so ur child takes it n suddenly remembers nuvu padestavu ani meeru anindi..so out of fear padestaadu vadu..meeremantaaru cheppana nuvvu padestavu.....etcneeku oka pani kuda raadu n all..isisnt it
but vadu chesindi kuda meeru cheppinde kada ..meeru padestavu ani annaru vadu kuda meeru cheppinde chesaadu....so try to develop his confidence...he may fail once but u be there to support his morale..ila cheyyadam valla natural discipline vasthundi
how many of u like ur child to be disciplined in front of everyone.....i hope andaru yes antaru..u want thm to be disciplined naturally or just mee kallu chuso ledo meeru tiditheno disciplined ga vundaala.....
it all depends how u mold the clay..once the clay is heated manam entha anukunna daani vere shape ivvalemu...
this all u can give right whn the child is young n learning...n he develops this from experience..let him be free to learn
ikkada maku oka rhyme mana telugu di chepparu with action..kondaru chesaru with action kondaru cheyyaledhu..n some tried to do.....thn she said why arent u doing with action ani.....the same the child too experiences..whn someone comes to ur house n u ask ur child to sing or tell rhymes...n the child doesnt even move his /her lips...meeremantaru bad boy/girl neeku emi raavantaru n all isint it...but did u understand the child feelings...ade once the guests go ur child will start telling u rhymes..meeru antaru po ippudu naakenduku..apuudu cheppaledhuga ani...
manam chesthe ne kada pillalu mana deggaranunchi nerchukunedi....whn young we would have done..like being free but now we stop all tht..
pillalu kuda ade nerchukuntaru...its on us to develop their confidence n to learn tht give thm their space n time..dont force thm.
sare next part of SAY n DO
3)whn the child asks WHY
for 4- above children
ikkada child annitiki reason telusukovaalanukuntaadu..anduke ee WHY..ilaantappudu parents answers ivvakudadhu..but allow him to inquire n find out themselves.deeni valla right brain activate avuthundi..creavity stimulate ayyin brain grow avuthundi.
okavela meeku answer teliyadanukondi..tell the child u will find out n let thm know.and ask thm their view..vallu cheppinaaka say 'YES',Ok..this is wht i feel ani..ila cheyyadam valla left brain stimulate avuthundi..reasoning develop avuthundi
left brain activate avavdam valla the child asks WHY
nevr anser the child ques give room for their creativity
ask thm why it happens like this/ wht happened? etc..once we answer we are killing their imagination..chinna pillala creativity ki antham vundadhu...this is time their brain starts loigical reasoning...u would have observed whn u give a toy to the child he first touches it, tries to feel it, thn tries to open it, throws down.........before he does something to tht broken toy wht do we do..vadini titti..a bommani permanent ga ataka meeda cherustaaru..but vaadiki aa virigina daantlo nunchi vachina sabdam lo inko creativity vuntundi...adi enta costly bpomma ayina sare bomma paristhiti anthe......vademi adagaledhu naaku intha costly bommakonivvu ani...for child oka 10/- or 1000 rs/- bomma same vadiki kavalsinda alla feel the toy n see wht more it is made of....
child creativity enthaga vuntundi ante..once a child was going on drive with his parents..suddenly he sees lots of lighting (actually adi oka hotel)in some distance..he asks his mother wht it is ani... so mom said u tell me wht u are thinking ani...vadu em cheppado telusaaa......i think its a big cale with som many candles..may be oka peddauncle birtyhday emo ani...isint just amazing to think like tht..the same child
the same child after 8 yrs became so shy n all his creativity has gone..can u guess what could be the reason................
HE STARTED GOING TO SCHOOL(ante school ki velladam tappa ani anukuntunnara..not at alll)
whts happening in the school...........no room for creativity..just spoon feeding......adi alavatu ayyi manam why ani adiginappudu the child becomes silent..he becomes tuned to listen whtever we say......ala ani school ni tappu pattatledhu......wht iam telling is u can create such environm,ent in ur home giving constant support to the child
even if the child is wrong u just tell "yes ur right..but wht i feel is...................." never correct him u are killing the creativity(in short the right brain of the child) ala cheppi thn ask now wht do u think abt wht i told u ani adagandi...he will start analysing...helping him to activate his left brain.
one more thing which i forgot to tell in 1 n 2nd part of Say n do is
spk to child in the same level..i mean height.....mormal ga whn child starts walking manam cheyyi pattukoni maatladuthu veltaamu right...dont do tht......the child wants to see ur face whn u spk..so he asks u to lift him up......n u complain veedu nannu vadaladu......eppudu ettukone vundaali ani...... even whn child is 1 yr also...spk to him at the same level...kneel down in front of thechild n spk...he will be able to see ur expressions...
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
ISP - Writing a Vision
Step 1
take a photograph of ur child or the type of baby u want for expecting mothers
step2
select 10-12 points from the list of values CHECKED..which u feel are highest priorities for both of u( now checked ani enduku annante..manam value n idol raastamu kada
eg ..you are strong like HANUMAN
ikkada strong is value n Hanuman is idol.....idol eppudu tappu vundakudadhu..as it gives direction..hitler strong kaada..osama bin laden strong kaada....so writing the correct idol is very imp....suppose visionary like narayan murthy anavacchu.....tomorrow the child may get chance to see him...n all..a live example before him)
Step 3
write down these ponts in letter sizeof 2-3 inch n decorate beautifully using ur creativity
Step 4
if u have more children
write separate vision...n read to thm daily....n preg valu read by keeping ur hand on the stomach... read twice..
once u are.........like.......
ayyinaaka..u can take individual A4/A3 paper write the values replacing U with I
eg I am.......like........
u can make a book binded n read it to thm daily...below 2-3 yrs vallaki
ela ante write value first thn second page lo bomma related, malli next page lo next value..next page lo bomma related ga..(may be u can keep the idol photyo or ur child exhibiting tht quality)..ala chesi oka book la cheyyandi..roju annam pettetappudu u show it..
next once above 3 yrs replace I with WE
eg We are ........ like ..............
ila cheyyadam vall u are idening the scope from u to we ..self to all ani.....like nenu...manam..anadaramu ane feeling ivvali
ammo ivvala chaala type chesaanu.....repu malli say n do cheptaanu...
ammayilu if u have doubts cheppandi..i will ask them n answer u...i was really joyed by attending this program...
nenu naa vision raayadam ayyindi..sunday nenu ameki chupinchi..photo pedataanu..naa account lo..so tht u alla can have idea how to do...but now start writing values n respective idols.....
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
take a photograph of ur child or the type of baby u want for expecting mothers
step2
select 10-12 points from the list of values CHECKED..which u feel are highest priorities for both of u( now checked ani enduku annante..manam value n idol raastamu kada
eg ..you are strong like HANUMAN
ikkada strong is value n Hanuman is idol.....idol eppudu tappu vundakudadhu..as it gives direction..hitler strong kaada..osama bin laden strong kaada....so writing the correct idol is very imp....suppose visionary like narayan murthy anavacchu.....tomorrow the child may get chance to see him...n all..a live example before him)
Step 3
write down these ponts in letter sizeof 2-3 inch n decorate beautifully using ur creativity
Step 4
if u have more children
write separate vision...n read to thm daily....n preg valu read by keeping ur hand on the stomach... read twice..
once u are.........like.......
ayyinaaka..u can take individual A4/A3 paper write the values replacing U with I
eg I am.......like........
u can make a book binded n read it to thm daily...below 2-3 yrs vallaki
ela ante write value first thn second page lo bomma related, malli next page lo next value..next page lo bomma related ga..(may be u can keep the idol photyo or ur child exhibiting tht quality)..ala chesi oka book la cheyyandi..roju annam pettetappudu u show it..
next once above 3 yrs replace I with WE
eg We are ........ like ..............
ila cheyyadam vall u are idening the scope from u to we ..self to all ani.....like nenu...manam..anadaramu ane feeling ivvali
ammo ivvala chaala type chesaanu.....repu malli say n do cheptaanu...
ammayilu if u have doubts cheppandi..i will ask them n answer u...i was really joyed by attending this program...
nenu naa vision raayadam ayyindi..sunday nenu ameki chupinchi..photo pedataanu..naa account lo..so tht u alla can have idea how to do...but now start writing values n respective idols.....
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
ISP - First Class
ISP first class details
First ask urselves --wht do u want ur child to be?
for eg.---
if u say--doctor ( it means 'U' had decided tht the child should be a doctor)
if u say-- whtever he want provided he is a gud human
in first case u have curbed the freedom of child by deciding wht he shuld become..in second case u are not clear abt the defination of gud human.....allowing ur child to decide whtever he wants is a wonderful thought, but u have to be a guiding force in the childs life.....wht ever it is both answers are lop-sided in their own way
the key is EXPOSURE....the child experiences all kinda of activities..left n right brain oriented activities(academics,music,sports,art,etc). the second n most important is imparting of values n sanskaras...for this u need to follow so tht he follows u.
wht do u want ur child to be?..shuld be very clearly defined in ur own mind..it shuld be written black n white, in short sentences(positive present tense)along with the picture of ur child (integral part of ISP)..this is called " VISION" for ur child.the same short sentences can be spoken to the child in sleep n thus reinforced.
for eg(who have new born children-3yrs)
u can start like this..
DEAR.....(ur baby name)
U are silent like buddha
u are strong like hanuman
u are clever as birbal
write like this 30 visions
here u are giving freedom to select whtever the child would like to be..we are not conditioning or limiting the child by setting a boundary.
take a photograph of ur child ..write down the vision in 2-3 inches of letter sixe n decorate it.
for pregnant ones..do write the same...keep ur hand on the stomach n read loudly the visiond daily for 3-4 times..and the same father also shuld do...
now why is this vision important.....
vision is for everyone n longterm.....
suppose nenu meku oka seed icchanu..ela describe chestaaru.
smooth/rough/brown color, apple/guava/....seed, oval/round/....,pointed.elongate,so on avunaa.......but can u vision this tree...giving n number of trees....
thts why we need to write vision to ur child.....oka example cheptaanu
suppose mee child tells u nenu richshaw pull chestaanu peddayyaka ni...meeremantaaru.....just think.......
ledhu nuvvu peddayyaka doctor avvali, engineer..so on cheptaaru..n also tellu baaga chadavakapothe rickshwa pull chestaru ani..avunaa]
but can u imagine one mother told sare ra u pull the rickshaw ani..do u know how grt the mother is to tell..enti surprise naa grt anannu ani....emanindo telusaa a mother...she said tappakundaa nuvvu pull chedduvu....aa srikrishnudu anatai vaade radhasarathi ga vundi direstion chupinchadu lokaniki..nuvvu kuda allage chupistaavu direstion ani......she is none but swamy vivekananda mother..she had a vision like tht..n child became tht....
jijabai...concieve ayinappudu cheppedi...moghuls antam cheyyali ani...wht did shivaji maharaj do?
concieve ayyina vallaki inka manchi chance ..ippudu..u are called as abhimanyu group..manam edi chepithe vallu ala absorb chestaaru(baby).....u can give a very good vision....
ila enduku chepthunnanu....manaki evaryna cheppara ivvani..ippudu manm kottga cheyyataaniki anukovacchu......manam sarriga peragaledaa..manam manchivallam kaada..manakivalues leva.....right ee doubt vundavacchu..
but earlier we had joint families....ippudu nuclear families....andaru vundatam valla we imbibe values easily....n ippudu only mom n dad...who dont have much time..wht will the child imbibe..manaki teliyadhu mana parents manaki kuda vision icchevaaru...ila kadanikondi..but guthundaa..padukovataaniki lali paatalu padevaaru...eg hindi lodi..chanda he thu..suraj he thu..ani.
wht is tht arent we giving him vision tht u are like sun.... . moon ani..enno stories cheppevaru..we used to imbibe values
how many of u sing those lullabies to ur child.....mana poorvam aa lullabies lo enno values vunnayi(to say naaku okati kuda raadu..evarykaina manchi site vunte cheppandi ..kacchitamga nerchukuntaanu).....vachina entamandi paadutaaru.....isint it...
normal ga oka infant edisthe em chestaaru meeru..just think before proceeding further...
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emantaamu enduku edusthunnavi bujji edavaku..emindi kanna..edavaku edavaku..n all
isint it...wht u want the child to do adi cheppara....edavaku..vaadiki vinipinchindi enti..edavaku.......before explaining this......close ur eyes n try to imagine wht i said under....
DONT SEE BLUE COLOUR...
entamandi blue chsaaru......most of u would kada.... mari meeru baby ki edavaku ani cheppinappudu vaademi chestaadu..edustaadu....like wise manam pillaliki adicheyyadu..adicheyyadu antaamu kada..thy will try to do tht ONLY.......manam cheppinde kada vallu chesedi(this part i will tell whn i talk about SAY n Do)
so manam etuvanti visiuon istaamo vallu ala manifest avutaaru...we are just giving him direction to go....at the same time we are not limitting him
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
First ask urselves --wht do u want ur child to be?
for eg.---
if u say--doctor ( it means 'U' had decided tht the child should be a doctor)
if u say-- whtever he want provided he is a gud human
in first case u have curbed the freedom of child by deciding wht he shuld become..in second case u are not clear abt the defination of gud human.....allowing ur child to decide whtever he wants is a wonderful thought, but u have to be a guiding force in the childs life.....wht ever it is both answers are lop-sided in their own way
the key is EXPOSURE....the child experiences all kinda of activities..left n right brain oriented activities(academics,music,sports,art,etc). the second n most important is imparting of values n sanskaras...for this u need to follow so tht he follows u.
wht do u want ur child to be?..shuld be very clearly defined in ur own mind..it shuld be written black n white, in short sentences(positive present tense)along with the picture of ur child (integral part of ISP)..this is called " VISION" for ur child.the same short sentences can be spoken to the child in sleep n thus reinforced.
for eg(who have new born children-3yrs)
u can start like this..
DEAR.....(ur baby name)
U are silent like buddha
u are strong like hanuman
u are clever as birbal
write like this 30 visions
here u are giving freedom to select whtever the child would like to be..we are not conditioning or limiting the child by setting a boundary.
take a photograph of ur child ..write down the vision in 2-3 inches of letter sixe n decorate it.
for pregnant ones..do write the same...keep ur hand on the stomach n read loudly the visiond daily for 3-4 times..and the same father also shuld do...
now why is this vision important.....
vision is for everyone n longterm.....
suppose nenu meku oka seed icchanu..ela describe chestaaru.
smooth/rough/brown color, apple/guava/....seed, oval/round/....,pointed.elongate,so on avunaa.......but can u vision this tree...giving n number of trees....
thts why we need to write vision to ur child.....oka example cheptaanu
suppose mee child tells u nenu richshaw pull chestaanu peddayyaka ni...meeremantaaru.....just think.......
ledhu nuvvu peddayyaka doctor avvali, engineer..so on cheptaaru..n also tellu baaga chadavakapothe rickshwa pull chestaru ani..avunaa]
but can u imagine one mother told sare ra u pull the rickshaw ani..do u know how grt the mother is to tell..enti surprise naa grt anannu ani....emanindo telusaa a mother...she said tappakundaa nuvvu pull chedduvu....aa srikrishnudu anatai vaade radhasarathi ga vundi direstion chupinchadu lokaniki..nuvvu kuda allage chupistaavu direstion ani......she is none but swamy vivekananda mother..she had a vision like tht..n child became tht....
jijabai...concieve ayinappudu cheppedi...moghuls antam cheyyali ani...wht did shivaji maharaj do?
concieve ayyina vallaki inka manchi chance ..ippudu..u are called as abhimanyu group..manam edi chepithe vallu ala absorb chestaaru(baby).....u can give a very good vision....
ila enduku chepthunnanu....manaki evaryna cheppara ivvani..ippudu manm kottga cheyyataaniki anukovacchu......manam sarriga peragaledaa..manam manchivallam kaada..manakivalues leva.....right ee doubt vundavacchu..
but earlier we had joint families....ippudu nuclear families....andaru vundatam valla we imbibe values easily....n ippudu only mom n dad...who dont have much time..wht will the child imbibe..manaki teliyadhu mana parents manaki kuda vision icchevaaru...ila kadanikondi..but guthundaa..padukovataaniki lali paatalu padevaaru...eg hindi lodi..chanda he thu..suraj he thu..ani.
wht is tht arent we giving him vision tht u are like sun.... . moon ani..enno stories cheppevaru..we used to imbibe values
how many of u sing those lullabies to ur child.....mana poorvam aa lullabies lo enno values vunnayi(to say naaku okati kuda raadu..evarykaina manchi site vunte cheppandi ..kacchitamga nerchukuntaanu).....vachina entamandi paadutaaru.....isint it...
normal ga oka infant edisthe em chestaaru meeru..just think before proceeding further...
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emantaamu enduku edusthunnavi bujji edavaku..emindi kanna..edavaku edavaku..n all
isint it...wht u want the child to do adi cheppara....edavaku..vaadiki vinipinchindi enti..edavaku.......before explaining this......close ur eyes n try to imagine wht i said under....
DONT SEE BLUE COLOUR...
entamandi blue chsaaru......most of u would kada.... mari meeru baby ki edavaku ani cheppinappudu vaademi chestaadu..edustaadu....like wise manam pillaliki adicheyyadu..adicheyyadu antaamu kada..thy will try to do tht ONLY.......manam cheppinde kada vallu chesedi(this part i will tell whn i talk about SAY n Do)
so manam etuvanti visiuon istaamo vallu ala manifest avutaaru...we are just giving him direction to go....at the same time we are not limitting him
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
ISP - Intro
the Infant SSy program is a byp[roduct of the siddha samadhi yoga(SSY) program
Guru Rishi prabhakar is the founder of the SSY n Infant SSY program..further it is enhanced by Raviji n manoj lekhji.
this program is helpful for anyone from concieving to having an 8yrs child..those who are planning this knowledge helps u to have a child not by chance but by choice.
Infant SSY is nothing but to know the Joy of PARENTING.
before i start telling wht is taught in ISP...u need to know few things
wht do u understand by parenting?is it an art or science?
(try to ansewr thm....it helps u to understand it in a better way)
parenting is nothing but bringing up the child
art is something, which we describe as an expression of oneself. any action is defined as art..like dancing , painting, sweeping,talking, driving etc..goes onits an expression which cannot be repaeted...eg..u cook daily but everyday its an new experience..a new taste..same with other things
Science is something which is repeated over n over again to produce similar results...
now why did i ask parenting is art or science?.......................
the endeavour of ISP is to make it repeatable, by generating similar experiences..or responses in specific envt. n making it a science..eg. handling child, one may argue tht everytime one handles a child n its adifferent experience.....
one formula works for sometime n suddenly backfires n the child doesnot respond as he had in earlier situation, whn it worked beautifully....
the ISP provide various angles n aspects of handling children n definitely something works..from this one may cnclude tht parenting is an ART.......as u handle child differently everytime.u have to be flowing in creativity n spontaneity to change whn the triedn tested formula doesnt work..all this disciplines the child naturally, without any force, shouting, without adopting carrotn stick policy....
now we can call parenting as science too.....may not be wholly but in some measures definitely.
art has got limitation science is always evolving...
hence parenting is not science or art....but a KNACK........the knack is to tune with the child to such a degree tht the very thought, expression look is percieved by the parent, so tht parent can verbalise the felings.....
nenu idanta ennduku cheppanu......okkasari aalochinchandi ...
once u think who enjoys the child more..parents or grandparents?
answer is grandparents..now thy have time n realised wht thy missedout the joy in bringing u up.....
so do we need to wait for 20 yrs to enjoy ur grand children..or now.......
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
Guru Rishi prabhakar is the founder of the SSY n Infant SSY program..further it is enhanced by Raviji n manoj lekhji.
this program is helpful for anyone from concieving to having an 8yrs child..those who are planning this knowledge helps u to have a child not by chance but by choice.
Infant SSY is nothing but to know the Joy of PARENTING.
before i start telling wht is taught in ISP...u need to know few things
wht do u understand by parenting?is it an art or science?
(try to ansewr thm....it helps u to understand it in a better way)
parenting is nothing but bringing up the child
art is something, which we describe as an expression of oneself. any action is defined as art..like dancing , painting, sweeping,talking, driving etc..goes onits an expression which cannot be repaeted...eg..u cook daily but everyday its an new experience..a new taste..same with other things
Science is something which is repeated over n over again to produce similar results...
now why did i ask parenting is art or science?.......................
the endeavour of ISP is to make it repeatable, by generating similar experiences..or responses in specific envt. n making it a science..eg. handling child, one may argue tht everytime one handles a child n its adifferent experience.....
one formula works for sometime n suddenly backfires n the child doesnot respond as he had in earlier situation, whn it worked beautifully....
the ISP provide various angles n aspects of handling children n definitely something works..from this one may cnclude tht parenting is an ART.......as u handle child differently everytime.u have to be flowing in creativity n spontaneity to change whn the triedn tested formula doesnt work..all this disciplines the child naturally, without any force, shouting, without adopting carrotn stick policy....
now we can call parenting as science too.....may not be wholly but in some measures definitely.
art has got limitation science is always evolving...
hence parenting is not science or art....but a KNACK........the knack is to tune with the child to such a degree tht the very thought, expression look is percieved by the parent, so tht parent can verbalise the felings.....
nenu idanta ennduku cheppanu......okkasari aalochinchandi ...
once u think who enjoys the child more..parents or grandparents?
answer is grandparents..now thy have time n realised wht thy missedout the joy in bringing u up.....
so do we need to wait for 20 yrs to enjoy ur grand children..or now.......
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
Infant Siddhi Samadhi Yoga
ISP---infant siddi samadhi yoga Programe
ninna ne first class..every sunday for 9 weeks i will have classes....
the class was amazing...
ISP- --------the art of parenting is an experiential workshop tht guides parents on how to bring up children right from the stage of conception to 8 yrs.
it deals with overall growth, development of the child covering the PHYSICAL, MENTAL,SOCIAL, EMOTIONAL and SPIRITUAL areas. it also deals with imparting totall education to the child covering all the 5 elements of nature namely EARTH,WATER,FIRE,AIR,and SPACE.
to give u a brief idea....
Physical--making exercise a joy.......one month baby crawling..n few on first day itself crawling.
Mental----making learning effortless
Social----developing childs interpersonal skills
Emotional---helping child to express his/her emotions
Spiritual---learn to be happy for no reason.
5 areas of education
Earth---exposeur
water---develop aesthetic sense through drama n arts
fire-- imbibe values of responsibility and sharing through techniques of natural discipline
air---raise the child in an atmosphere of love n compassion
Space---bring up ur child in an envt of freedom n happiness.
some facts:
you caN affect ur babys superior intelligence in the womb itself
ur child brain grows to 50%by the age of 4 yrs and to 80%by the age of 8 yrs n up to 5% for the rst of the life
ur child can read like an adult at the age of 3 yrs( idi nenu practical ga chusaanu..maa uncle valla kodalu vallu ee course chesaaru..n now the baby is 2.2 yrs n she can read 5 languages smoothly...)
ur child can learn 10 languages by the age of 4 yrs
ur child can master musical instruments n computer at the age og 3 yrs
children love discipline
ee course valla
how to learn from children rather thn teach thm
how to ......
ninna ne first class..every sunday for 9 weeks i will have classes....
the class was amazing...
ISP- --------the art of parenting is an experiential workshop tht guides parents on how to bring up children right from the stage of conception to 8 yrs.
it deals with overall growth, development of the child covering the PHYSICAL, MENTAL,SOCIAL, EMOTIONAL and SPIRITUAL areas. it also deals with imparting totall education to the child covering all the 5 elements of nature namely EARTH,WATER,FIRE,AIR,and SPACE.
to give u a brief idea....
Physical--making exercise a joy.......one month baby crawling..n few on first day itself crawling.
Mental----making learning effortless
Social----developing childs interpersonal skills
Emotional---helping child to express his/her emotions
Spiritual---learn to be happy for no reason.
5 areas of education
Earth---expose
water---develop aesthetic sense through drama n arts
fire-- imbibe values of responsibility and sharing through techniques of natural discipline
air---raise the child in an atmosphere of love n compassion
Space---bring up ur child in an envt of freedom n happiness.
some facts:
you caN affect ur babys superior intelligence in the womb itself
ur child brain grows to 50%by the age of 4 yrs and to 80%by the age of 8 yrs n up to 5% for the rst of the life
ur child can read like an adult at the age of 3 yrs( idi nenu practical ga chusaanu..maa uncle valla kodalu vallu ee course chesaaru..n now the baby is 2.2 yrs n she can read 5 languages smoothly...)
ur child can learn 10 languages by the age of 4 yrs
ur child can master musical instruments n computer at the age og 3 yrs
children love discipline
ee course valla
how to learn from children rather thn teach thm
how to ......
how to raise child effortlessly
how to develop both sides of brain
how to develop e senses to its maximum
how to develop 8 types of intelligence
will tell what they taught us in 1st class ..konchem break taruvatha
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
how to develop both sides of brain
how to develop e senses to its maximum
how to develop 8 types of intelligence
will tell what they taught us in 1st class ..konchem break taruvatha
Courtesy: Rekha Satish
Weaning Breast Feeding
http://www.pregnancy-calendars.org/breastfeeding/ways-to-stop-breastfeeding.html
USEFUL LINK ON BREAST FEEDING
when u stop breast feeding u may feel feverish for 2 days. u have to express out extra milk
Response 1
.but remember its US who have to have control over them finally or else they will make our life more hectic..not a warning though...but these were exactly my doc's words when I had the same complain with my Saket at 8-9 months...my advice is(doc's too)...Stay stubborn and dont loose your control and have him latch to you..that way u can never wean him frm the breast...so have control and just whenver he wants milk give him the bottle...if he doesn't drink thats fine..u know kids of 10 months age need atleast 4-5 days to get used to bottle and stop feeding frm breast...I know it is too hard to see them crying but if you really want him to let go of your breast just u have to be in control..if he doen't drink milk,have him fed with other food like cereal,water and fruits etc...its fine...by the end of 4th day they will be used to bottle..try it out and do consult your doc for any further suggestions...All the best at your trials...
Response 2
I am not right person to answer your query...but i can advise you. First of all, kids who are on breastfeed till 10 months, and not introduced to bottle/formula do not like the taste of formula.... instead try Nestle Quick start or else wait for another two months, and then start giving him whole milk. { If you cant wait two more months, you can mix equal quantities of water and whole milk, though this is against doctor's advise} In the mean time, cut down on the number of feeds gradually, like to two during the day and one in the night.
Also, if he goes to sleep only upon latching, try to put him to sleep by rocking, or in a swing. He need not take up bottle, once he is one year old, you can introduce him to cup straight away...
My son Tejas is also 11 months old, and he was exclusively breastfed till 6 months and then started giving him solids from then on... I am planning to continue feeding till he is one year, and then introduce him to whole milk either through a cup/sipper/bottle. I am now sending him to Indian day care for five hours during the day, so that he would slowly forget being fed.... I started to give him Yogurt(Yo baby and home made) to ensure his calcium intake.
All the best and do not worry!!!
Response 3
I have no clue if weaning a month old and 10 month old is the same...but let me tell u my experience...Within a month my milk supply hit the rocks and I had to make him take the bottle. Ofcourse he used to yell and just refuse the bottle...Like you..out of sheer frustration and not having enough the heart to see him cry...I used to le him latch on. So i got some tips from my doc...he wanted my mom or my husband to try giving the bottle coz babies associate mommies with milk He wanted me out of the roomOnce they get used to a routine its very tough for them to accept foreign objects. He also said the baby will never let himself go hungry....eventually he will have to take the bottle to quench his hunger so u need to be strong willed and kep trying...
Lastly...keep experimenting with different bottles and nipples. Initially I tried Dr.Browns...Maadhav rejected it outright and wud not take it inspite of trying for 2 days. Then I switched to Playtex Natural latch. Itz wide mouthed, the nipple is made of silicone so it doesnt give that plastic smell or taste...Ofocurse Maadhav rejected this too in the beginning but after coupla trys...he took to it..
I've heard that some babies once they get used to mommies milk reject formula....Ur son might refuse the formula simply coz itz from the source hez used too. So try drizzling the formula down ur breast when hez latched on and see if hez drinking the formula..!!! WEird na!! i dunno how we can do it but thatz what my doc adviced me to do it...Thankfully...Maadhav took to bottle b4 this step....
Response 4
deeniki koncham nuvu kastapadali,if u are giving 4 times a day reduce to 3 times then 2 and once in a day ala aipoyaka especially night breast feed avasaram avutundi eee time lo feed cheyakunda water istu undali. koncham kasta maina task. leda intilo pedda vallu untey pillalani vala degara paduko pedataru kontha mandi, adi villu kadu kabati,sippy cup alavatu untey water tagistu undali instead of milk.
Response 5
breast feeding manipinchali antey slow ga try cheyandi ventaney manaru
vallaki tvaraga manipinchali antey nipple ki edyna chedhuga poosthey vallaki taste nachaka thagaru
ala try cheyochu meeru
Response 6
ya vidya ala kuda try cheyachu nipple ki chedu gha poostaru like tamrind paste,kunkudukaya pulusu or kakarakaya rasam lantivi try cheyachu ala kuda
Response 7
deeniki ISP lo okati chepparu..meeru try chesi chudandi...but namamkam tho cheyyandi.
once the baby sleeps....ante manchi nidra kaadu...just padukuntunappudu......like he will sleep off ani anipisthundi kad appudu...
just place ur hand on him n start telling
u are good...(ur son name)
u listen to moms words
u are healthy n happy
u will drink milk from glass
the glass is beautiful n clean
u will feel more happy by drinking from glass as we all do
ila meeru telugu or english lo aina cheppandi....continue this for 10 days....nenu vinna experiences batti breast feeding maanestaaru ani...
ur
idi oka deenike kaadu like any prob with the child u can do this....nenu more ISP ane thread separeate ga pedtaanu...as only moms ke kaadu un general ga help chesthundi ani..anything further u can ask me
hey ila rojuki 2 times cheppandi
USEFUL LINK ON BREAST FEEDING
when u stop breast feeding u may feel feverish for 2 days. u have to express out extra milk
Response 1
.but remember its US who have to have control over them finally or else they will make our life more hectic..not a warning though...but these were exactly my doc's words when I had the same complain with my Saket at 8-9 months...my advice is(doc's too)...Stay stubborn and dont loose your control and have him latch to you..that way u can never wean him frm the breast...so have control and just whenver he wants milk give him the bottle...if he doesn't drink thats fine..u know kids of 10 months age need atleast 4-5 days to get used to bottle and stop feeding frm breast...I know it is too hard to see them crying but if you really want him to let go of your breast just u have to be in control..if he doen't drink milk,have him fed with other food like cereal,water and fruits etc...its fine...by the end of 4th day they will be used to bottle..try it out and do consult your doc for any further suggestions...All the best at your trials...
Response 2
I am not right person to answer your query...but i can advise you. First of all, kids who are on breastfeed till 10 months, and not introduced to bottle/formula do not like the taste of formula.... instead try Nestle Quick start or else wait for another two months, and then start giving him whole milk. { If you cant wait two more months, you can mix equal quantities of water and whole milk, though this is against doctor's advise} In the mean time, cut down on the number of feeds gradually, like to two during the day and one in the night.
Also, if he goes to sleep only upon latching, try to put him to sleep by rocking, or in a swing. He need not take up bottle, once he is one year old, you can introduce him to cup straight away...
My son Tejas is also 11 months old, and he was exclusively breastfed till 6 months and then started giving him solids from then on... I am planning to continue feeding till he is one year, and then introduce him to whole milk either through a cup/sipper/bottle. I am now sending him to Indian day care for five hours during the day, so that he would slowly forget being fed.... I started to give him Yogurt(Yo baby and home made) to ensure his calcium intake.
All the best and do not worry!!!
Response 3
I have no clue if weaning a month old and 10 month old is the same...but let me tell u my experience...Within a month my milk supply hit the rocks and I had to make him take the bottle. Ofcourse he used to yell and just refuse the bottle...Like you..out of sheer frustration and not having enough the heart to see him cry...I used to le him latch on. So i got some tips from my doc...he wanted my mom or my husband to try giving the bottle coz babies associate mommies with milk He wanted me out of the roomOnce they get used to a routine its very tough for them to accept foreign objects. He also said the baby will never let himself go hungry....eventually he will have to take the bottle to quench his hunger so u need to be strong willed and kep trying...
Lastly...keep experimenting with different bottles and nipples. Initially I tried Dr.Browns...Maadhav rejected it outright and wud not take it inspite of trying for 2 days. Then I switched to Playtex Natural latch. Itz wide mouthed, the nipple is made of silicone so it doesnt give that plastic smell or taste...Ofocurse Maadhav rejected this too in the beginning but after coupla trys...he took to it..
I've heard that some babies once they get used to mommies milk reject formula....Ur son might refuse the formula simply coz itz from the source hez used too. So try drizzling the formula down ur breast when hez latched on and see if hez drinking the formula..!!! WEird na!! i dunno how we can do it but thatz what my doc adviced me to do it...Thankfully...Maadhav took to bottle b4 this step....
Response 4
deeniki koncham nuvu kastapadali,if u are giving 4 times a day reduce to 3 times then 2 and once in a day ala aipoyaka especially night breast feed avasaram avutundi eee time lo feed cheyakunda water istu undali. koncham kasta maina task. leda intilo pedda vallu untey pillalani vala degara paduko pedataru kontha mandi, adi villu kadu kabati,sippy cup alavatu untey water tagistu undali instead of milk.
Response 5
breast feeding manipinchali antey slow ga try cheyandi ventaney manaru
vallaki tvaraga manipinchali antey nipple ki edyna chedhuga poosthey vallaki taste nachaka thagaru
ala try cheyochu meeru
Response 6
ya vidya ala kuda try cheyachu nipple ki chedu gha poostaru like tamrind paste,kunkudukaya pulusu or kakarakaya rasam lantivi try cheyachu ala kuda
Response 7
deeniki ISP lo okati chepparu..meeru try chesi chudandi...but namamkam tho cheyyandi.
once the baby sleeps....ante manchi nidra kaadu...just padukuntunappudu......like he will sleep off ani anipisthundi kad appudu...
just place ur hand on him n start telling
u are good...(ur son name)
u listen to moms words
u are healthy n happy
u will drink milk from glass
the glass is beautiful n clean
u will feel more happy by drinking from glass as we all do
ila meeru telugu or english lo aina cheppandi....continue this for 10 days....nenu vinna experiences batti breast feeding maanestaaru ani...
Kids are stubborn…but remember its us who have to have control over them finally or else they will make our life more hectic..not a warning though…but these were exactly my doc’s words when I had the same complaint …my advice is(doc’s too)…Stay stubborn and don’t loose your control and have him latch to you..that way u can never wean him from the breast…so have control and just whenever he wants milk give him the bottle…if he doesn’t drink thats fine..u know kids of 10 months age need at least 4-5 days to get used to bottle and stop feeding from breast…I know it is too hard to see them crying but if you really want him to let go of your breast just u have to be in control..if he doesn’t drink milk, feed him with other food like cereal,water and fruits etc…its fine…by the end of 4th day they will be used to bottle..try it out and do consult your doc for any further suggestions…All the best at your trials…
I am not right person to answer your query…but i can advise you. First of all, kids who are on breastfeed till 10 months, and not introduced to bottle/formula do not like the taste of formula…. instead try Nestle Quick start or else wait for another two months, and then start giving him whole milk. { If you can’t wait two more months, you can mix equal quantities of water and whole milk, though this is against doctor’s advise In the mean time, cut down on the number of feeds gradually, like to two during the day and one in the night.
Also, if he goes to sleep only upon latching, try to put him to sleep by rocking, or in a swing. He need not take up bottle, once he is one year old, you can introduce him to cup straight away…
I have no clue if weaning a month old and 10 month old is the same…but let me tell u my experience…Within a month my milk supply hit the rocks and I had to make him take the bottle. Of course he used to yell and just refuse the bottle…Like you..out of sheer frustration and not having enough the heart to see him cry…I used to let him latch on. So i got some tips from my doc…he wanted my mom or my husband to try giving the bottle coz babies associate mommies with milk He wanted me out of the room Once they get used to a routine its very tough for them to accept foreign objects. He also said the baby will never let himself go hungry….eventually he will have to take the bottle to quench his hunger so u need to be strong willed and kep trying…
Lastly…keep experimenting with different bottles and nipples. Initially I tried Dr.Browns.he rejected it outright and would not take it in spite of trying for 2 days. Then I switched to Playtex Natural latch. Itz wide mouthed, the nipple is made of silicone so it doesn’t give that plastic smell or taste…Ofcourse he rejected this too in the beginning but after coupla trys…he took to it..
idi oka deenike kaadu like any prob with the child u can do this....nenu more ISP ane thread separeate ga pedtaanu...as only moms ke kaadu un general ga help chesthundi ani..anything further u can ask me
hey ila rojuki 2 times cheppandi
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